Awareness is the Seed of Destiny

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The goals get crossed off. The calendar’s full.

You’re even proud of how far you’ve come.

But something still aches.

Like all the doing isn’t leading to peace.

So what if success isn’t about doing more… but becoming something else entirely?

For years, I measured my worth by my output.

How efficient was I? How much did I create? How many goals did I crush?

I started to become a machine.

Clock in, execute, achieve, repeat.

I was starting to win by external metrics, yet inside, I felt hollow.

Each achievement only amplified the hunger for the next one.

I was performing a life rather than living one.

But what if there was another way?

What if all this chasing was actually taking me further from what I wanted?

Lao Tzu once watched a man try to push water upstream.

He strained for hours.

Then an old farmer walked by and said:

“Water never forces. It flows where it belongs.”

Had I been so focused on becoming that I'd forgotten I already was?

That's when it clicked.

I was forcing things like the man who was trying to push water upstream.

It wasn't to be more alive, it was to feel better.

And it clearly wasn't working.

So I decided to change something.

I started operating from awareness.

Instead of just trying to achieve the next thing, I focused fully on whatever I was doing in the moment.

And something interesting happened.

I began slowly aligning with the things I really wanted and let go of the things I didn't.

I still built, created, and grew.

But from a place of wholeness rather than hunger.

When you operate from awareness, you don't need to force anything.

The right actions arise naturally.

The wrong pursuits fall away on their own.

Your true purpose emerges not from adding more goals, but from being present with what is.

Try this:

Take a pause before your next action.

Ask yourself: Am I doing this from awareness or automation?

From presence or performance?

That simple check-in changes everything.

Because it's from that awareness that you naturally align with what you actually want, not what you've been programmed to want.

The silent observer is always there.

You just have to remember to return to it.